The desire for a love spell often comes from a place of deep yearning, heartache, or powerlessness. You want to feel like you have some control over a situation that feels overwhelmingly uncertain. You want to guarantee a specific outcome: to be with the person you love, to secure a marriage, to stop a partner from leaving.
It’s a human desire to want to secure love and happiness. However, the concept of a “spell” requires careful and ethical consideration.
A Critical Ethical Warning: Free Will
The most important principle in any discussion of love magic, across almost all spiritual and ethical systems, is free will.
What is a “Love Spell” aimed at a specific person? This is an attempt to manipulate, influence, or control another person’s emotions, thoughts, and actions against their own will and best interest.
Why is this problematic?
Karmic Consequences: Many believe that manipulating someone’s free will creates negative energy that returns to the sender (often summarized as the “Rule of Three” in Wicca: whatever energy you put out, good or bad, returns to you threefold).
Unintended Outcomes: Even if it “works,” you are not getting love freely given. You are essentially creating a puppet. This can lead to a relationship built on illusion, dependency, or even resentment, rather than genuine connection. It can also backfire in unexpected ways.
It Doesn’t Solve the Real Problem: A spell won’t fix underlying issues like poor communication, incompatibility, trust issues, or personal insecurities.
In short: Spells aimed at forcing a specific person to love or marry you are widely considered unethical, ineffective in creating real love, and potentially harmful.
Ethical Alternatives: “Spells” for Attracting and Strengthening Love
The most powerful and ethical magical practice focuses not on controlling others, but on transforming yourself and your own energy to become a magnet for the love you desire. This aligns your intention with the universe’s flow without violating free will.
Think of it as gardening: you cannot force a seed to grow by pulling on it. But you can create the most fertile soil, provide sunlight and water, and protect the space, making it the ideal environment for that seed to flourish on its own.
Here are ethical alternatives and their “ingredients,” which you can treat as ritualistic spells or simply as powerful symbolic acts of intention.
- The Self-Love Foundation Spell (The Most Important One)
You cannot attract or maintain a healthy relationship if you do not feel you are worthy of one. This spell is about making yourself a complete and radiant person, which is the ultimate attraction.
Intention: To cultivate deep self-love, confidence, and wholeness.
Tools:
A mirror
A pink or red candle (for love)
Rose quartz crystal (stone of unconditional love)
A bath with rose petals or jasmine-scented salts
“Ritual”:
Light the candle. Hold the rose quartz.
Look at yourself in the mirror and state affirmations: “I am worthy of love. I am complete. I am loving and lovable. I attract healthy and joyful relationships.”
Take a ritual bath, imagining any insecurity or past hurt washing away. Visualize yourself filling with a warm, pink light of self-acceptance.
Real-World Action: Start a gratitude journal about yourself. Practice self-care. Do things that make you feel confident and joyful on your own.
- Spell to Attract a Right and Perfect Partner (Non-Specific)
This is for those seeking a new relationship or marriage, without targeting a specific person.
Intention: To call a compatible, loving partner into your life.
Tools:
A piece of paper and pen
A green candle (for attraction and growth)
A small bag (a mojo bag)
Attractive items: cinnamon sticks (for attraction), lavender (for harmony), rose petals (for love)
“Ritual”:
Light the candle. On the paper, write down the qualities you desire in a partner and a relationship (e.g., “kind, honest, makes me laugh, shared values, committed to marriage”). Be specific about how they make you feel, not what they look like.
Fold the paper, place it in the bag with the herbs, and seal it with a drop of candle wax.
Keep this bag in your bedroom. Trust that the universe will bring someone who matches this energy.
Real-World Action: Put yourself in situations where you can meet new people. Be open and approachable. Your energy of self-love and clarity will naturally attract the right people.
- Spell to Strengthen an Existing Relationship
This is designed to improve the bond, communication, and passion with a current partner, respecting their free will while enhancing what is already there.
Intention: To deepen the love, trust, and connection in my current relationship.
Tools:
Two red candles (to represent you and your partner)
A cord or ribbon (pink or red)
A photo of you together (or something that represents your bond)
“Ritual”:
Place the two candles side by side and light them.
As they burn, visualize the love between you growing stronger, filled with understanding and joy.
Gently tie the ribbon around the two candles, loosely. This symbolizes your connection, not a binding. State your intention: “I wish for our bond to be strengthened with mutual respect and love.”
Let the candles burn safely.
Real-World Action: Have the conversations this ritual brings to mind. Plan a special date. Express your appreciation for your partner. The “magic” is in the focused intention followed by tangible action.
The Most Powerful Magic of All
The most potent force in any relationship is not an external spell, but your own actions:
Clear Communication: Speaking your truth with kindness and listening with an open heart.
Vulnerability: Having the courage to be seen for who you are and to see your partner for who they are.
Consistent Effort: Choosing your partner every day through small acts of kindness, respect, and appreciation.
True, lasting marriage alignment is built on this foundation of mutual choice and effort, not on coercion. Focus your energy there, and you will create a love that is truly magical. Contact Bashir for Help
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Marriage Spells are supposed to be very strong and effective 
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